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Maria Shriver interviews Mary Oliver

Maria Shriver is guest editor of O Magazine‘s April Issue, a special Poetry Month edition of the magazine, which features a rare interview with Pulitzer Prize-winning poet Mary Oliver. Shriver has long admired Oliver’s work, and writes, “I was overjoyed when—after politely declining my invitations for six straight years—Mary finally agreed to read at my annual Women’s Conference in California last fall, joining speakers like Michelle Obama and Eve Ensler.”

In the interview, Oliver talks about writing, reading, the loss of her life partner Molly Malone Cook, and finding the courage to speak about personal trauma. Here’s a short excerpt from this revealing and delightful discussion:

Maria Shriver: One line of yours I often quote is, “What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”* What do you think you have done with your one wild and precious life?
Mary Oliver: I used up a lot of pencils.

Maria Shriver: [Laughs.]
Mary Oliver: What I have done is learn to love and learn to be loved. That didn’t come easy. And I learned to consider my life an amazing gift. Those are the things.

Maria Shriver: You have lived a very unique life, a life really individual and fearless.
Mary Oliver: Well, it was never a temptation to be swayed from what I wanted to do and how I wanted to live. Even when Molly got ill, I knew what to do. They wanted to take her off to a nursing home, and I said, “Absolutely not.” I took her home. That kind of thing is not easy. I used to go out at night with a flashlight and sit on a little bench right outside the house to scribble poems, because I was too busy taking care of her during the day to walk in the woods.

* The poem referenced here is “Wild Geese,” which can be found in New and Selected Poems, Volume One.